Three Common Traits of Elite Leaders


Want to be an elite leader? In my experience of coaching leaders for over fifteen years, I have observed three foundational traits that set elite leaders apart from all others. In our coaching at, we work with leaders to become what we call: F.A.B.ulous leaders: Focused, Action-Oriented, and Bold. Let me explain:

Elite Leaders Are F.ocused

The most successful leaders I know are the most focused leaders I know. As the skill level needed increases in your ministry or organization, so must your level of focus. Most leaders I know are on the verge of breaking through, but doing so will mean they must break loose from being overextended, overexposed, and overutilized. As the organization grows, every leader must move from generalist to specialist. Your focus will lin large part determine your growth.

Elite Leaders Are A.ction Oriented

Why do we fail to take action? We are afraid. We have paralysis by analysis. An organization can not grow faster than the pace at which it makes decisions. Procrastination is a conditioned response to stress! Mel Robbins in her book The Five Second Rule, talks about what research proves: If you have an instinct to act on a goal, you must physically take some kind of action on that goal within 5 seconds or your brain will kill it. You must take action…within five seconds! If you are not taking action, you can not change. You must be more decisive! Action = Traction = Satisfaction!

Elite Leaders Are B.old

You do not have to be the most brilliant, just the most passionate. You can not just act. You must act boldly. You must be confident and authoritative. Leadership at the next level requires a certain amount of swagger. Remember when Brett Favre played for the Green Bay Packers? He didn’t have the best skill or mechanics. What made him a hall of fame quarterback? Favre had what we call “Ice in his veins.” He had no fear. He didn’t play not to lose. He often threw caution to the wind. He wasn’t focused on the possibility of a mistake or fear of losing the game. He would drop back and sling it with no fear. Can you do the same? Stop focusing on playing it safe. Stop making fear based decisions. Drop back and sling it!

Want to become a more F.A.B.ulous Leader? Need to get your swagger back? We would love to help! Drop us a line and let’s talk about what coaching could look like for you!