What do you do if you must release someone…?
Here are 9 tips (some of them— like #2— which may seem counter-intuitive).
#1 = Don’t procrastinate
To recognize something is wrong and don’t do something about it is wrong.
#2 = Approach the privately
If you go to them one-on-one, they’ll be far less defensive.
#3 = Affirm them
They haven’t done everything wrong. They’ve likely contributed to your team in a positive way.
#4 = Be honest
Don’t spin reality and say, “things are tight right now.” Don’t blame it on Covid or the economy.
Just tell them clearly.
#5 = Acknowledge our pain to them
If this is easy, then we’re probably not healthy. This is going to be a life-changing event for them. It should not be easy.
#6 = Be generous
Be kind in your praise and even offer them a severance if you can afford it.
#7 = Define the “high road” and “low road” scenario
Assume the best— that they will honor your organization on the way out. But also outline what the worst-case scenario looks like.
#8 = Put everything in writing
This doesn’t necessarily require legal documentation— just communication.
#9 = Develop a communication plan
Decide who tells everyone else…


